
How real are you?
You’ve learned to adapt and meet expectations. You put on your mask, play your role, and smile your way through the day with pleasantries. That’s how you survive in the world as you’ve come to know it. A world that always seems to be ‘on,’ where ‘more’ and ‘better’ are the norm. You’re tired, and you feel yourself slowly burning out.
You overlook what you are and you are scared to be who you are.
Deep down, you know exactly what you want most. You want to be able to be yourself, without filters, without excuses. But at the same time, that’s also your greatest fear. Because what if you turn out not to be good enough? What if everyone turns away from you once you truly show yourself? So you choose the seemingly safe path instead. The path of adapting, absorbing, looking away, and swallowing it down. A seemingly safe path that turns out to be a dead end.
What for a long time seemed to protect and serve you is now your prison. Acknowledging and seeing this takes courage. What it can give you is a real and honest life. I can lead you there. I’ll confront you with inauthenticity and offer space to what wants to be lived in calmness and clarity. By you!

My offer
You can see me individually, either in person and online.
- Therapy for those who dare (individual/group)
- Coaching for life questions and choices
- Training
Who am I?
To me, that’s the most important question anyone can ask themselves. And that says something about me. Along with the questions:
What is real?
What is true?
What is the meaning of (my) life?
These questions have been important throughout my life. The search for answers has yielded life experience and knowledge — rooted in psychology, philosophy, and biology — which I use to help answer your questions.
What I can be and mean to you is something you’re welcome to discover by asking me. Whatever the question — about anything — you’ll get as real and honest an answer as possible.
Or
Read my book.

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Order outside of Bonaire:
– Eigen Kracht Uitgeverij – eigenkrachtuitgeverij.nl
– regular bookstore
– online (e.g. Bol.com)

